Speech Acts

As a Canadian (North American) in Singapore, I have to somewhat agree with the research done on the speech acts/responses from Singaporeans and Americans (Westerners). From what I’ve experienced so far in Singapore, I find that the a lot of Singaporeans are conservative and try to “save face.” I often get confused, awkward responses from locals after giving a simple complement. Earlier this week, I complimented a fellow student on his haircut and asked where he got it from. In return, I was given an awkward stare like I was invading his personal face. After an awkward pause, he uneasily muttered out the name of the barber shop/salon. In another case, I complimented a girl on her outfit for the night, and in return the girl turned away from me, looked down and quietly thanked me. I’m not sure if I have been conversing with the small population of Singapore that is shy or if that is the more actually the more common response I will get.

In North America, complimenting people is taken very well. People will often respond with an enthusiastic thank you, and return the compliment or agree with the one you made. Rarely will a compliment be turned down or unnoticed.

Please do tell me if I am “judging” Singapore by the wrong individuals! haha